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I saw a great meme the other day on Instagram.

“If you were looking to hire someone to provide security to your family, and you were presented with your own resume, would it be enough?” – unknown

I think the quick answer is “Maybe, but that’s why we continue to train.”

Taking on the role of the defender and protector of your family is undoubtedly an immense responsibility that not everyone is capable of handling effectively. It requires a certain level of commitment, dedication, and selflessness to ensure that your loved ones are safe and sound at all times.

It takes a conscious effort to be vigilant and proactive in securing their safety, whether it is ensuring that the doors and windows are locked before going to bed, talking to them about potential dangers, or taking self-defense classes to better prepare themselves for any unforeseen circumstances.

Unfortunately, many people underestimate the gravity of this responsibility and fail to take it seriously, which can lead to disastrous consequences. Therefore, it is important to pause and reflect upon the significance of this duty and ensure that every necessary measure is taken to protect your family from any harm.

How much knowledge is enough?

The amount of self-defense and security knowledge required to protect someone’s family varies depending on a number of factors, including the size and composition of the family, the location of the family, and the family’s lifestyle.

In general, however, it is important for all family members to have some basic self-defense knowledge and skills. This includes knowing how to identify potential threats, how to avoid dangerous situations, and how to defend themselves if they are attacked.

Family members should also be familiar with the security measures in place in their homes and neighborhood. This includes knowing where the security alarms are located, how to use them, and who to contact in an emergency.

In addition to self-defense and security knowledge, family members should also have a plan in place in case of an emergency. This plan should include where the family will go if they need to evacuate their home, who they will contact, and what they will do with their pets.

It is also important for family members to practice their self-defense and security skills regularly. This will help them to stay calm and collected in a crisis situation and to remember what they need to do to protect themselves and their loved ones.

Ask Yourself.

There is no surefire way to know if your training is enough yet. However, you can start by asking yourself the following questions:

  • Do I feel confident in my ability to identify potential threats?
  • Do I know how to avoid dangerous situations?
  • Can I defend myself if I am attacked? Can I defend other people at the same time?
  • Do I know the security measures in place in my home and neighborhood?
  • Do I have a plan in place in case of an emergency?


If you can answer yes to all of these questions, then you may be prepared to protect your family. However, if you have any doubts, it is always a good idea to seek additional training. Even a resounding yes to all of these questions should always result in even more training.

Things to Consider.

Here are some tips for determining if your self-defense and security training is enough:

  • Consider the specific risks that your family faces. If you live in a high-crime area, you may need to have more training than if you live in a “safe” neighborhood. But then again, crime happens everywhere.
  • Think about the size and composition of your family. If you have young children, you may need to have more training than if you have older children or adults. Are any of your family members trained?
  • Evaluate your own physical and mental abilities. If you are not in good physical condition, you may need to focus on training that will help you to improve your fitness. If you have a mental condition that could affect your ability to defend yourself, you may need to find training that is tailored to your specific needs.
  • Get regular training updates. Most self-defense training is a perishable skill and must be consistently practiced to maintain proficiency. Participate in refresher courses and seek opportunities to hone your skill set to stay ahead of attackers and boost your confidence to ensure personal safety and security.
  • Practice what you learn. The best way to learn self-defense is to practice what you learn. This will help you to develop muscle memory and make it more likely that you will be able to use your skills in a real-life situation. Time on the mat and time at the range is essential.

Self-Defense and Safety Tips

Here are some additional general tips for staying safe and protecting your family:

  • Be aware of your surroundings. This includes paying attention to people and vehicles that seem out of place.
  • Trust your instincts. If you feel like something is wrong, it probably is.
  • Walk with confidence. Don’t look like an easy target. Keep your head up, and cell phone away.
  • Carry pepper spray, a stun gun, telescopic steel baton, and/or a firearm, and know how to use them. These self-defense tools can help you fight back successfully if you are attacked.
  • Have a plan in place for what to do if you are attacked. This could include running away, fighting back, or calling for help.
  • Teach your children about self-defense and safety. This could include teaching them how to identify potential threats, how to avoid dangerous situations, and how to defend themselves if they are attacked.
  • Talk to your neighbors. Get to know them and let them know that you are looking out for each other’s safety.
  • Install security measures in your home. This could include installing a security system, deadbolt locks, and motion-sensor lights.
  • Be prepared to evacuate your home in case of an emergency. This could include having a plan for where you will go and what you will take with you.


By following these tips, you can help to keep your family safe and protect them from harm. Your biggest takeaway from all of this should take the training. Learn martial arts. Learn defensive pistol. Learn how to use self-defense weapons and know how to fight. Keep practicing. You don’t need to be a black belt or John Wick to defend yourself or your family. But it doesn’t hurt. Strive to be the best defender you can be. Hopefully, you never need to test your mettle.

Stoic Self-Defense

True protectors never stop learning because they believe that wisdom is the key to happiness and a good life. They believe that the more we learn, the better equipped we are to deal with any challenges of life. They also believe that learning helps us become more understanding and compassionate.

Here are some of the reasons why protectors never stop learning:

  • Belief that wisdom is the key to happiness. They believe that the more we learn, the better equipped we are to make wise decisions, remain safe and secure and live a fulfilling life.
  • Belief that learning helps us to become more understanding and compassionate people. They believe that by learning about different cultures and perspectives, we can come to better understand the world around us and the people in it.
  • Belief that learning helps us to become more resilient. They believe that by learning about the challenges that other people have faced and overcome, we can develop the strength and courage to face our challenges.
  • Belief that learning helps us to become more adaptable. They believe that learning about different ways of thinking and doing things can make us more flexible and open-minded. From self-defense techniques to de-escalation, we are better suited for adapting to the situation.
  • Belief that learning helps us to become more creative. They believe that by learning about different ideas and possibilities, we can come up with new and innovative modern solutions to modern problems.


Overall, protectors believe that learning is a lifelong journey that can help us to live better, happier, and more fulfilling lives.

As always, be safe and be prepared.

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